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Gotta Get Back In It
Yeah, I know. I suck. I’ve only posted twice this year, I know. I really suck.
I had some stuff take over my life and got distracted and busy and all the other words I can use as excuses but don’t really work to get me off the hook of one plain and simple fact: I need to post more. I had a good rhythm going, but it got all messed up and the Aspie in me totally lost my groove.
So, I’m going to get the groove back. I’m going to make it a habit to post once a day. That will get me back in it. So you’ll probably be getting a bunch of annoying “boring shit happened to me today” posts. But it’s better than no posts, right? I think so.
Apologies for the dead-ness of this blog lately, and future apologies for the annoying-ness of this blog soon. 🙂 But I’m back!
My Bad
Apologies for the absence of posting lately. Life has been very busy lately. Quick updates – I passed my online blood bank class and certification test, so yay for that. 🙂 My wife ended up injuring her shoulder bad enough to require surgery, so boo for that. 😦 Most of my time recently has been filled up by doing all of the driving around for the kids, going to work, and sleeping when possible (which has not been much).
But don’t worry… I’m still here. I haven’t disappeared. And when I have a good amount of time to put together a proper post, I will. Thanks for your patience!!!
Top 13 of ’13
Coming to you a little late this year, but better late then never. Right?
Whew… tough room.
For your reading pleasure, the 13 best posts of 2013!
13. My Autism Theory (7/27/13) – my crackpot theory about what causes autism
12. Triggers (3/10/13) – the little things that cause big meltdowns
11. My Nemesis (2/13/13) – a coworker of mine WON’T STOP TALKING.
10. Aspie Evolution (5/25/13) – looking at Aspergers as an evolutionary advantage.
9. I Don’t Get It (6/22/13) – I completely miss the point of a joke
8. Autism and Bullying (11/17/13) – avoiding the pitfalls of bullying with your autistic child
7. Fancy NOT Meeting You Here (9/3/13) – I avoid a co-worker in the supermarket
6. An Aspie and a Funeral (7/21/13) – I am extremely confused while attending a funeral
5. Fighting for… a Cure? (1/17/13) – is autism a disease that can be cured?
4. Bad News is Bad (10/5/13) – I can’t handle hearing bad news from others
3. This is My Aspergers (8/13/13) – the history of my aspergers
2. Family Business (10/13/13) – trying to build an emotional bond with my children
1. What Does Aspergers Feel Like? (7/7/13) – a detailed look at what my Aspergers feels like
If I missed your favorite, please mention it in the comments section.
Happy New Year!!
The Numbers Game
Happy 12/12!!!
Dates like this always make me smile. Jackpot Day (7/7/07), Deca-Day (10/10/10), and any time Sequence Day rolls around (11/12/13 was the last one)… I love them all.
One of my “aspie passions” is math – I love all of the things you can do with math. The laws of the universe are written in the language of math. If you can interpret the laws, there is so much magic to be experienced. I love that I can use math for very important and also very silly things. I’ve become a pretty decent poker player over the last few years as I realized that successful betting boils down to a strong understanding of probabilities (a.k.a. MATH!). Then I find myself doing useless things with math like calculating expected value coefficients in order to choose between the Big Box or Curtain 2 on Let’s Make a Deal.
3X + cos(2XY – 20) – X/R = ZONK
I think that sometimes numbers can be integral to a person’s life, if one’s mind is open enough to see the connections. For example… a very long time ago, for no apparent reason that I can remember, I chose 28 as my favorite number. I used it everywhere I could. When I was in high school I found out that 28 is a “perfect number” – all of its factors besides itself (14, 7, 4, 2, 1) add up to the number (14 + 7 + 4 + 2 + 1 = 28!). The number I chose as my personal favorite just happened to be perfect! And not only that, a few years ago I looked at my birthdate and found out that the digits of my birthdate add up to – you guessed it – 28.
Brain asploded.
I’m not saying that I believe in horoscopes or things like that, but I do believe that numbers and math play an important role in the universe and our lives. I think recognizing patterns and number sequences in nature is a way to pay respect to the power that these forces play in our lives.
Happy Thanksgiving!!!!
I just wanted to wish all of my readers and followers a safe and happy Thanksgiving! I am truly thankful for the ability that this blog gives me to reach out to each and every one of you.
Enjoy your day with whomever you spend it with, even if it’s just yourself! As for me, I’m off to Golden Corral to stuff my face with some Thanksgiving goodness.
And the God of Thanksgiving bequeathed all foods with a chocolate sheen.
Interaction
Nov 30
Posted by JF
It has been brought to my attention from one of my followers – who also happens to live in the same house as I do and also happens to be married to me – that I need to be more interactive with my commenters and followers. Apparently, this “follower” has not been paying attention to any of the posts on this blog… or the behavior tendencies of her husband for the past fourteen years.
She also doesn’t know about the meth lab I have running in the basement.
Breaking news: I have Aspergers. Also breaking news: people with Aspergers are generally bad at interacting with others. So yeah, you could say that my people skills are not exactly up to par. When interacting with people, at best I come off awkward and strange. At worst, I come off like a heartless, uncaring sociopath. And I thought one of the goals of this blog was to attract readers, not repel them.
I would not be the first person to make that mistake.
With that being said… as much as it pains me to say so – because I’ll never live it down – this “follower” is right. I should be conversing with my commenters and followers. Sure, I can post personal and interesting things for you to read, but what better way to reach out than to talk to my readers and respond to their questions and comments directly? We might start a a conversation that never would have been explored without that direct level of interaction.
So, along with responding to emails, I will also be answering comments on my posts when the situation calls for it. And yes, I will also be responding to comments from that certain “follower” as well.
If I have the strength left after heaing “I told you so” 1,364 times.
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